My Answers to Chuck Klosterman’s “23 Questions I Ask Everybody I Meet in Order to Decide if I Can Really Love Them”

This is what genius looks like.

This is what genius looks like.

It’s highly likely that I’ve already posted this before on my old Myspace blog (For those of you who don’t remember, Myspace was a social network that decapitated Friendster. And then ironically – or perhaps fittingly – was beaten, spat on, and left for dead by Facebook), but I’m going to go with it anyway.

In his book Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs: A Low Culture Manifesto, Chuck Klosterman (above) wrote a list of “23 Questions I Ask Everybody I Meet in Order to Decide if I Can Really Love Them.” Klosterman only provided the questions with no answers of his own. I suppose the intention of the questions (other than the overtly stated purpose) is to create some kind of introspection and/or philosophical debate that would invariably end after hours of back-and-forth with either of the follow statements, “Yeah, I guess,” or “Yeah, but still.”

I have thought about these questions before, obviously, and like I said, there’s a very real (93%) chance that I’ve already answered these questions on-line before, but if there’s anything I’ve learned by following the Mets all these lean seasons and teaching the same material every school year, it is this: even though it feels like nothing changes, I am constantly evolving. In case you were wondering, the 2011 version of Phil is better than the 2009 version, but nowhere near as good as the 2003 version. Let’s get to it. While some of these questions require an obvious suspension of disbelief, I will answer them as seriously as possible. Otherwise, why do it?

Will he do for "rudimentary?"

Will he do for “rudimentary?”

1. Let us assume you met a rudimentary magician. Let us assume he can do five simple tricks–he can pull a rabbit out of his hat, he can make a coin disappear, he can turn the ace of spades into the Joker card, and two others in a similar vein. These are his only tricks and he can’t learn any more; he can only do these five. HOWEVER, it turns out he’s doing these five tricks with real magic. It’s not an illusion; he can actually conjure the bunny out of the ether and he can move the coin through space. He’s legitimately magical, but extremely limited in scope and influence. Would this person be more impressive than Albert Einstein?

A: Albert Einstein is meaningless to me. I am not a science guy and possess little-to-no knowledge of his accomplishments, let alone why they are noteworthy. Because of this, the magician would have to be more impressive. Since I am human, I would struggle with the magician’s abilities, but in a vacuum, I think I would be infinitely more astonished by a rabbit that appears out of nowhere than a lecture on relativity or a shitty movie starring Tim Robbins and Meg Ryan. Contextually, though, in Einstein’s day, what he was doing probably seemed a bit like magic. 

2. Let us assume a fully grown, completely healthy Clydesdale horse has his hooves shackled to the ground while his head is held in place with thick rope. He is conscious and standing upright, but completely immobile. And let us assume that–for some reason–every political prisoner on earth (as cited by Amnesty International) will be released from captivity if you can kick this horse to death in less than twenty minutes. You are allowed to wear steel-toed boots. Would you attempt to do this?

A: I don’t think I could kill the horse in 20 minutes. The condition of the horse is key: it would likely take an in-his-prime David Beckham to put this bad boy down, and a non-elite level kicker as myself would likely have little chance of actually killing it. So it’s a question of practicality. Is it worth even trying if nothing less than a kill would do it, even if when that outcome is unlikely? Is it worth the bother of the effort and the pained neighing you’d have endure while trying to Chun Li the horse? Yeah. I think I have to try.



3. Let us assume there are two boxes on a table. In one box, there is a relatively normal turtle; in the other, Adolf Hitler’s skull. You have to select one of these items for your home. If you select the turtle, you can’t give it away and you have to keep it alive for two years; if either of these parameters are not met, you will be fined $999 by the state. If you select Hitler’s skull, you are required to display it in a semi-prominent location in your living room for the same amount of time, although you will be paid a stipend of $120 per month for doing so. Display of the skull must be apolitical. Which option do you select?

A: The money isn’t the thing, it’s the upkeep of the turtle. I’m lazy. I’m going with the skull. Storm Shadow action figure popping out of the left eye socket, Snake Eyes out of the right. Yin and Yang and all that.

4. Genetic engineers at Johns Hopkins University announce that they have developed a so-called “super gorilla.” Though the animal cannot speak, it has a sign language lexicon of over twelve thousand words, an I.Q. of almost 85, and–most notably–a vague sense of self-awareness. Oddly, the creature (who weighs seven hundred pounds) becomes fascinated by football. The gorilla aspires to play the game at its highest level and quickly develops the rudimentary skills of a defensive end. ESPN analyst Tom Jackson speculates that this gorilla would be “borderline unblockable” and would likely average six sacks a game (although Jackson concedes the beast might be susceptible to counters and misdirection plays). Meanwhile, the gorilla has made it clear he would never intentionally injure any opponent. You are commissioner of the NFL: Would you allow this gorilla to sign with the Oakland Raiders?

A: Easy. No way. Aside from all of the inherent on-field problems-like linebackers slipping on banana peels – this single decision would make the league a farce and create a precedent by which other such genetically altered beasts (such as anacondas with arms) could pursue an NFL career. Besides, as commissioner, I am at the behest of the owners who would never allow such a thing to ruin the league, thereby crippling their income. It would be the last stupid move I made. I need my job.

It was a nice run, Jessica.

5. You meet your soul mate. However, there is a catch: Every three years, someone will break both of your soul mate’s collarbones with a Crescent wrench, and there is only one way you can stop this from happening: You must swallow a pill that will make every song you hear–for the rest of your life–sound as if it’s being performed by the band Alice in Chains. When you hear Creedence Clearwater Revival on the radio, it will sound (to your ears) like it’s being played by Alice in Chains. If you see Radiohead live, every one of their tunes will sound like it’s being covered by Alice in Chains. When you hear a commercial jingle on TV, it will sound like Alice in Chains; if you sing to yourself in the shower, your voice will sound like deceased Alice vocalist Layne Staley performing a capella (but it will only sound this way to you). Would you swallow the pill?

A: Don’t get me wrong, I like Alice in Chains. Just not that much. The only way this question is even difficult is if you are one of those people who believe in a single perfect person for themselves. Like I said, people change. When I was 23, my soul mate was Jessica Alba. Now my soul mate is probably Jaime Chung.

6. At long last, someone invents “the dream VCR.” This machine allows you to tape an entire evening’s worth of your own dreams, which you can then watch at your leisure. However, the inventor of the dream VCR will only allow you to use this device of you agree to a strange caveat: When you watch your dreams, you must do so with your family and your closest friends in the same room. They get to watch your dreams along with you. And if you don’t agree to this, you can’t use the dream VCR. Would you still do this?

A: No. Way.

7. Defying all expectation, a group of Scottish marine biologists capture a live Loch Ness Monster. In an almost unbelievable coincidence, a bear hunter in the Pacific Northwest shoots a Sasquatch in the thigh, thereby allowing zoologists to take the furry monster into captivity. These events happen on the same afternoon. That evening, the president announces he may have thyroid cancer and will undergo a biopsy later that week. You are the front page editor of The New York Times: What do you play as the biggest story?

A: The Loch Ness Monster is out because it’s international. The president trumps Big Foot because of the practical implications. But man, that’s one hell of a day. Still, though, if it’s October and the Mets win the World Series, everything else gets bumped back to page 14.

She looks real smart.

She looks real smart.

8. You meet the perfect person. Romantically, this person is ideal: You find them physically attractive, intellectually stimulating, consistently funny, and deeply compassionate. However, they have one quirk: This individual is obsessed with Jim Henson’s gothic puppet fantasy The Dark Crystal. Beyond watching it on DVD at least once a month, he/she peppers casual conversation with Dark Crystal references, uses Dark Crystal analogies to explain everyday events, and occasionally likes to talk intensely about the film’s “deeper philosophy.” Would this be enough to stop you from marrying this individual?

A: I don’t think I can answer “Yes.” Essentially, the person Klosterman just described is me, but instead of Dark Crystal, it’s the Mets/baseball. I listen to Mad’s children’s music CDs on a loop and I haven’t gone mad yet. If you’re telling me that Blake Lively is a thinker with a sense of humor, and she and I get along on an emotional level-and all I have to do is deal with the fact that her favorite thing in the world is a puppet show, then tell me where to sign.

9. A novel titled Interior Mirror is released to mammoth commerical success (despite middling reviews). However, a curious social trend emerges: Though no one can prove a direct scientific link, it appears that almost 30 percent of the people who read this book immediately become homosexual. Many of these newfound homosexuals credit the book for helping them reach this conclusion about their orientation, despite the fact that Interior Mirror is ostensibly a crime novel with no homoerotic content (and was written by a straight man). Would this phenomenon increase (or decrease) the likelihood of you reading this book?

A: My curiosity wouldn’t let me not read this book. I’m the same guy that runs Google searches in theaters when I’m watching a movie with an actor I recognize, but can’t remember where I know him from. This scenario is exactly the kind of mystery that I go running towards. I know it’s not the same thing, but I had to watch Brokeback Mountain once it started gaining critical acclaim. I want to know what the fuss is about. Having said that, I would like to pat myself on the back for somehow avoiding hardcore drugs despite their popularity among celebrities, rich people and also people who used to be celebrities and/or rich.

10. This is the opening line of Jay McInerney’s Bright Lights, Big City: “You are not the kind of guy who would be in a place like this at this time of the morning.” Think about that line in the context of the novel (assuming you’ve read it). Now go to your CD collection and find Heart’s Little Queen album (assuming you own it). Listen to the opening riff to “Barracuda.” Which of these two introductions is a higher form of art? 

A: I’ve never read McInerney’s book, but now I want to. Heart wins by default. But I don’t feel bad because Heart also gave us “Alone” and “Magic Man.” Cheers.

11. You are watching a movie in a crowded theater. Though the plot is mediocre, you find yourself dazzled by the special effects. But with twenty minutes left in the film, you are struck with an undeniable feeling of doom: You are suddenly certain your mother has just died. There is no logical reason for this to be true, but you are certain of it. You are overtaken with the irrational metaphysical sense that–somewhere–your mom has just perished. But this is only an intuitive, amorphous feeling; there is no evidence for this, and your mother has not been ill. Would you immediately exit the theater, or would you finish watching the movie?

A: I would finish out the movie. If my mom is dead, 20 minutes (or 20 hours) won’t really make a difference. I also assume that I would be alerted to anything as spectacular as the death of my mother, and if I hadn’t been called yet, then I probably wouldn’t be able to immediately get in touch either. Besides, I refuse to be ruled by impulses like this. I have to limit my irrational behavior to the Mets and the Mets alone if I am to continue as a serviceable member of society.

Well, unless this is how far $10 gets me. And I'll even keep the number.

Well, unless this is how far $10 gets me. And I’ll even keep the number.

12. You meet a wizard in downtown Chicago. The wizard tells you he can make you more attractive if you pay him money. When you ask how this process works, the wizard points to a random person on the street. You look at this random stranger. The wizard says, “I will now make them a dollar more attractive.” He waves his magic wand. Ostensibly, this person does not change at all; as far as you can tell, nothing is different. But–somehow–this person is suddenly a little more appealing. The tangible difference is invisible to the naked eye, but you can’t deny that this person is vaguely sexier. This wizard has a weird rule, though–you can only pay him once. You can’t keep giving him money until you’re satisfied. You can only pay him one lump sum up front. How much cash do you give the wizard?

A: I don’t give him any money. I’m married, I have a daughter, and my name is on a mortgage; I need money more than I need to be physically attractive.

13. Every person you have ever slept with is invited to a banquet where you are the guest of honor. No one will be in attendance except you, the collection of your former lovers, and the catering service. After the meal, you are asked to give a fifteen-minute speech to the assembly. What do you talk about?

A: Here’s the intro to my speech: “Hey, ladies, thanks for coming. Um, it means a lot to me since about 13 others didn’t bother to show… (silence) *clears throat* Tough crowd.” Honestly, this is the one question I don’t know how to answer. The only thing all of them would have in common is me, some of them wouldn’t know each other, and that’s not as bad as the ones that do know each other. I’m assuming that I have no choice but to speak for 15 minutes, so I would probably just go with thanking them for contributing to my life, even if it was only for a few weeks and we had to keep it a secret. But, um, since they’re all there, I guess the secret’s out now.

What do naughty cats look at on the internet?

What do naughty cats look at on the internet?

14. For reasons that cannot be explained, cats can suddenly read at a twelfth-grade level. They can’t talk and they can’t write, but they can read silently and understand the text. Many cats love this new skill, because they now have something to do all day while they lay around the house; however, a few cats become depressed, because reading forces them to realize the limitations of their existence (not to mention the utter frustration of being unable to express themselves). This being the case, do you think the average cat would enjoy Garfield, or would cats find this cartoon to be an insulting caricature?

A: I think that cats would find Garfield to be closer to a caricature. Mostly, I think that the cats would be put off by the fact that it’s a representation of a cat’s thoughts and behavior which was created by a human. Their frustration would be exacerbated by the fact that they lack the skills and means to set the record straight.

15. You have a brain tumor. Though there is no discomfort at the moment, this tumor would unquestionably kill you in six months. However, your life can (and will) be saved by an operation; the only downside is that there will be a brutal incision to your frontal lobe. After the surgery, you will be significantly less intelligent. You will still be a fully functioning adult, but you will be less logical, you will have a terrible memory, and you will have little ability to understand complex concepts or difficult ideas. The surgery is in two weeks. How do you spend the next fourteen days?

A: I don’t think I get the surgery. I think I spend the next 6 months getting my house in order and knocking a few things off the bucket list.

"Pick me, I know! Kitty porn!'

“Pick me, I know! Kitty porn!’

16. Someone builds and optical portal that allows you to see a vision of your own life in the future (it’s essentially a crystal ball that shows a randomly selected image of what your life will be like in twenty years). You can only see into this portal for thirty seconds. When you finally peer into the crystal, you see yourself in a living room, two decades older than you are today. You are watching a Canadian football game, and you are extremely happy. You are wearing a CFL jersey. Your chair is surrounded by books and magazines that promote the Canadian Football League, and there are CFL pennants covering your walls. You are alone in the room, but you are gleefully muttering about historical moments in Canadian football history. It becomes clear that—for some unknown reason—you have become obsessed with Canadian football. And this future is static and absolute; no matter what you do, this future will happen. The optical portal is never wrong. This destiny cannot be changed. The next day, you are flipping through television channels and randomly come across a pre-season CFL game between the Toronto Argonauts and the Saskatchewan Roughriders. Knowing your inevitable future, do you now watch it?

A: No. I don’t care about the CFL now. The crystal ball is intended to make me care (one way or another). But what the optical portal doesn’t know is I love the Mets.

17. You are sitting in an empty bar (in a town you’ve never before visited), drinking Bacardi with a soft-spoken acquaintance you barely know. After an hour, a third individual walks into the tavern and sits by himself, and you ask your acquaintance who the new man is. “Be careful of that guy,” you are told. “He is a man with a past.” A few minutes later, a fourth person enters the bar; he also sits alone. You ask your acquaintance who this new individual is. “Be careful of that guy, too,” he says. “He is a man with no past.” Which of these two people do you trust less?

A: I trust the man without a past less. At least you know where you stand with the other guy. It’s exactly this kind of thinking that leads to guys like Matt Stairs and Juwan Howard having jobs in professional sports in 2011. Better the devil you know. Even if the devil’s name is “Juwan Howard.

18. You have won a prize. The prize has two options, and you can choose either (but not both). The first option is a year in Europe with a monthly stipend of $2,000. The second option is ten minutes on the moon. Which option do you select?

A: Ten seconds on the moon. Both options are about traveling, but if I really wanted to, I could check out Europe on my own. The moon, though? I don’t remember much from all of the business classes I failed in college, but I think this is an example of “opportunity cost” or something like that, right? Screw you, Intro to Accounting and Calculus for Business. I had to take summer school because of you guys. If I ever see your asses on the street, I’m gonna straight up ignore you guys.

19. Your best friend is taking a nap on the floor of your living room. Suddenly, you are faced with a bizarre existential problem: This friend is going to die unless you kick them (as hard as you can) in the rib cage. If you don’t kick them while they slumber, they will never wake up. However, you can never explain this to your friend; if you later inform them that you did this to save their life, they will also die from that. So you have to kick a sleeping friend in the ribs, and you can’t tell them why. Since you cannot tell your friend the truth, what excuse will you fabricate to explain this (seemingly inexplicable) attack?

A: “Oh, shit. My bad, dude. I was… shit, this is so dumb. I was trying to see how close I could get to kicking you without actually touching you. Shit. Yeah, man. I’m soooooooo sorry. I think I was like 2 inches away on the try right before. No, yeah, I know that don’t mean shit. Sorry. I’m an idiot. You can kick me if you want. What? No, not in the nuts. Just… I don’t know. In the ribs, too, I guess. Nah, really, it’s cool. You sure? You can totally take a shot.  My bad, man.

Scott, you don't even need to apply. You got the part of Brett Gaitley on lock.

Scott, you don’t even need to apply. You got the part of Brett Gaitley on lock.

20. For whatever the reason, two unauthorized movies are made about your life. The first is an independently released documentary, primarily comprised of interviews with people who know you and bootleg footage from your actual life. Critics are describing the documentary as “brutally honest and relentlessly fair.” Meanwhile, Columbia Tri-Star has produced a big-budget biopic of your life, casting major Hollywood stars as you and all your acquaintances; though the movie is based on actual events, screenwriters have taken some liberties with the facts. Critics are split on the artistic merits of this fictionalized account, but audiences love it. Which film would you be most interested in seeing?

A: The Hollywood blockbuster. I live my life. It’s boring. I don’t need a documentary to tell me I’m lame. But Jeremy Piven playing Phil Higa and Mila Kunis as Lynnette? Awesome! Steve Buscemi  as Paul? Jamie Walters playing Matty? Scott Disick as Brett? Dave Bautista as Geno? That movie kicks ass even if it sucks.

21. Imagine you could go back to the age of five and relive the rest of your life, knowing everything that you know now. You will reexperience your entire adolescence with both the cognitive ability of an adult and the memories of everything you’ve learned form having lived your life previously. Would you lose your virginity earlier or later than you did the first time around (and by how many years)?

A: Probably earlier, but truth be told, I’m more concerned with how all of that knowledge would help me become a better baseball player from tee-ball all the way through to high school. What can I say, I probably won’t get much better at sex-not much room for improvement there (dusts off shoulder)but I think I could probably be a lot better on the field.

22. You work in an office. Generally, you are popular with your coworkers. However, you discover that there are currently two rumors circulating the office gossip mill, and both involve you. The first rumor is that you got drunk at the office holiday party and had sex with one of your married coworkers. This rumor is completely true, but most people don’t believe it. The second rumor is that you have been stealing hundreds of dollars of office supplies (and then selling them to cover a gambling debt). This rumor is completely false, but virtually everyone assumes it is factual. Which of these two rumors is most troubling to you?

A: The rumor about the theft. I can’t be arrested for adultery. Can I?

23. Consider this possibility:

a. Think about deceased TV star John Ritter.

b. Now, pretend Ritter had never become famous. Pretend he was never affected by the trappings of fame, and try to imagine what his personality would have been like.

c. Now, imagine that this person—the unfamous John Ritter—is a character in a situation comedy.

d. Now, you are also a character in this sitcom, and the unfamous John Ritter character is your sitcom father.

e. However, this sitcom is actually your real life. In other words, you are living inside a sitcom: Everything about our life is a construction, featuring the unfamous John Ritter playing himself (in the role of your TV father). But this is not a sitcom. This is your real life.

How would you feel about this?

A: How would I know the difference, Morpheus?


One comment on “My Answers to Chuck Klosterman’s “23 Questions I Ask Everybody I Meet in Order to Decide if I Can Really Love Them”

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